Discover Your Ways of Loving

Ways of loving, Better Arguments = Better Communication

Arguments happen and will continue to happen. All couples argue. Even those sickly-sweet-disgusting people that demonstrate their love at any time or any place. You see, even the “I can’t stop touching you” lovebirds have had, or will have arguments.

But arguments aren’t bad. And if looked at as opportunities to learn and grow, arguments can highlight bigger issues that need attention or resolution.

When we are angry, we are biased and believe what we say or do makes perfect sense. After all, our subconscious mind is designed to be right [even if we are passionately WRONG!]. When we are in the mindset of “QUEEN or KING of all things right and perfect,” almost everything our partner says or does makes us wonder how they manage to dress and feed themselves. I assure you, your partner thinks the same way about you.

Eventually the dust clears, our emotions level-out and we begin to see things clearer [higher mind and reason kicks in] and hopefully, we remember why we fell in love in the first place.

Personalities, history and culture effect our arguing styles. You yell, your partner goes silent. You cry, your partner wants to leave the house. When we arrive at adulthood, most of us are well-versed in our abilities to argue, lash out and hurt others. We may have inherited an arguing style that looks very much like our parents, other influential adults, or siblings. Some arguing styles are influenced by our sex and culture.

You have choices. You have a choice about what you think. You have a choice about how and if to argue. Wouldn’t it be great if you had a tool chest filled with options that would make arguments constructive and create greater understanding between you and others? Well, there is good news! Beginning today, you can start building a customized personal or relationship tool chest that can help strengthen you, your partner [or loved ones] and all your relationships.

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